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"The
wedding industry is thriving because people who have money but no ideas
of their own need to hire the services of those who have ideas and want
the money."
Seema S. Chandra, on e-mail
Emerald Aisle
Your cover story indicates that austerity is no longer a virtue ("The
Great Wedding Bazaar", December 10). The gaudy display of wealth
at wedding ceremonies is an extension of the nouveau riche culture that
has swept the country ever since it opened up its economy. Small wonder
then that savvy entrepreneurs and trousseau designers are having a field
day capitalising on the one-upmanship obsession of the consumerist privileged
class.
Nalini Vijayaraghavan, Thiruvananthapuram
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Picking
Mike Denness as one of its five cricketers of the year for
1975, Wisden had stated: "He has always said that he
will undertake whatever job he is given to the best of his
ability, treating each responsibility he is given as a job
("Picking on India", December 3)." In trying
to do a job too well Denness has muffed up his human instincts.
His attempt to adhere to the letter and spirit of Law 42 has
ended up creating a schism in cricket.
Dr K.S. Gupta, Dar es Salaam
Ignorance of a statute is no excuse and the violation is
greater when it is the world's leading batsman who has overlooked
a legal provision. To castigate Mike Denness either for not
going by the "spirit" of the law or for ignoring
Sachin Tendulkar's squeaky-clean reputation is incorrect because
he was only going by the book. While the BCCI can rightly
protest against the match referee's injustice, backing players
even when they are not right could make them think that they
are above authority and discipline.
S.K. Pitty, Kolkata
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Weddings with an obscene display of greed and wealth accord secondary
status to the bride and groom with the pride of prominence being given
to the swishy dos. Such extravagant show of wealth is bereft of any emotion
and disparages the sanctity of marriage. One should take lessons from
Priyanka Gandhi who, despite the means, chose to marry in a simple manner.
Preeti Trivedi, Mumbai
The Indian wedding industry may be worth Rs 5,000 crore but it is naive
to think that only extravagant festivities and colossal expenses ensure
a happy married life. Not even one marriage worth that amount would ensure
happiness because it is not pomp and lustre that make for a happy married
life but trust and love.
Dr Aachi Mithin, on e-mail
While the Bangurs, Agarwals, Sarins and others of their ilk ostentatiously
display kilos of gilt, do they feel even an ounce of guilt at the obscenity?
Shaila Sondhi, Delhi
Phasing Out
M.M. Joshi's Laws of Perspec-tives may emphasise textual criticism but
lack accuracy, moral conviction and social concern ("Here's a New
Yesterday", December 10). The debate and measures to change our history-or
efface it-are actually tussles between the "saffron" and the
"red". Left in the lurch are students of the subject.
A.S. Raj, on e-mail
It was amusing to read your article on the rewriting of history. But
I am worried that the process will rob the subject of its intrigue and
render it lacklustre and unilateral. It is a pity that in the hands of
the present Government Hinduism, the most tolerant of religions, has acquired
the intolerance of the country's monotheistic religions. But before trying
to change India's past, the human resources development minister, who
professes to be a scientist of sorts, should read the environmental science
textbooks written by his minions-they convey an appalling ignorance of
the subject.
J.C. Daniel, on e-mail
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