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Base Instinct
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soon as they step out from their homes, women are assaulted in the crudest
of forms-overt sexual gestures, lewd remarks and crude invitations ("Rape!",
September 9). Isn't this the rape of women's self-esteem? Men are not
aware of women's issues and this must be reversed by introducing sensitisation
programmes in schools. Moreover, the legal definition of rape should not
be limited to an incidence of forced sexual intercourse.
Ekta Thakur, Mumbai
While women have undergone a great liberalising process, the male attitude
remains basically unchanged. Add to that society's obsession with male
children. Indian men are brought up on the belief that they are superior
to their female counterparts, a belief they seek to vindicate throughout
their lives. The portrayal of women as sexual objects by the media enforces
the perception that women exist to slake male lust. Is it any wonder then
that a woman is raped every 35 minutes in this country?
Radhika Oltikar, Mumbai
Retribution through capital punishment for rapists is the only way our
country can annihilate this horrifying offence against women. The fear
that such a law can generate will subdue the animal instinct in men whose
minds are socially perverted.
K. Chidanand Kumar, on e-mail
The growing frequency of rapes is a cruel mockery of the law and order
situation in the largest democracy in the world. It shows how unsafe women
are in a country where she is worshipped as goddess.
Satish Satija, on e-mail
A Majority of rape victims belongs to the poor and vulnerable sections
of society or are minors. They are not skimpily clad women but those who
have been forced by circumstances to work or live in unsafe conditions.
If sari or burqa can reduce crime against women then let's make the burqa
the national dress for women. The statement that the clothes worn by women
are often the cause of rapes is an orthodox one. It's not dress but the
attitude of a person that is responsible for heinous crimes. If today's
women "cross their limits" the irony is that men never realise
theirs.
Bharati Singh, Delhi
Young women in the metros believe that modernity means showing off your
skin. Most of the rape cases, molestation and eve-teasing occur because
of the skin shows. It seems that our good, old dupatta has lost its purpose.
The solution to sexual crimes is to go back to the basics by wearing the
traditional salwar-kurta.
Abhishek Chandra, Delhi
As long as the Indian male treats women as objects and the police have
few women officers, there is very little hope of women escaping sexual
crimes. The girls should be taught some form of self-defence in school.
The last resort would be to empower women.
Uma Maheswari, Delhi
The observations of Delhi Police Commissioner R. S. Gupta are practical.
Sexual crimes have to be curbed but mere words are not going to change
the deep-rooted male psyche. The wolf, no doubt, has to be tamed but till
then the prey has to be careful.
Girish Bhojnagarwala, on e-mail
The post-rape trauma suffered by victims is compounded by insensitive
and patriarchal comments of people like the Delhi Police commissioner
who blame the victims for the crime since "they do not know their
limits" and are not "careful with what they wear". Aren't
we living in a democracy where each one has the right to wear what he/she
wants? Who gives men the right to treat women as the second sex?
Karishma Bery, Delhi
How many of the recent crimes against women have been because of indecent
dressing or provocative behaviour? How many of the victims wore backless
or spaghetti tops? The victim is a woman in a salwar-kameez at a bus stop.
It is a woman in a sari at home. It is a normally dressed college student.
The only crime they seem to have committed is that of having been born
a woman. I am a "normally" dressed college student who travels
to Delhi University by bus. I carry a knife.
Tara Kaushal, on e-mail
Rape is just a wild act by a man to satisfy his ego and show his authority.
If the dress codes of women are to be blamed then was the mentally challenged
girl who was raped in a Mumbai train at fault?
Gareem Garg, on e-mail
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