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is Sunday morning and Poonam Madan, 36, an air hostess with British Airways,
has a date with God. Cut to Shri Ram Sharnam, one of the many satsang
centres in Delhi, where thousands gather every Sunday to chant and pray.
Madan, a regular here, sings bhajans with delirious devotion. "I
realise I am blessed," she says, tears of joy trickling down her
face as the satsang draws to an end.
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DELIRIOUS DEVOTION: The dancing devotees at
Delhi's ISKCON temple during the shringar aarti (top); an Osho group
in meditation
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From fashion experts to stock brokers, from professionals
to housewives, spirituality is drawing many. Earlier, satsang (literally,
the company of the good) was a holier-than-thou activity associated only
with the tired, the retired and the disillusioned. In its finest interpretation,
Hinduism also has been more of a personal, individual tryst with God,
not necessarily a faith based on prayer congregation. But now, religious
places, meditation centres and ashrams of various religious orders attract
a large number of people, many of them young professionals who refuse
to swap their satsang dates for swanky parties.
Among the thousands who fill up satsang halls
every week, there is no ignoring the young women with tinted hair, glitter
nailpolish and small, beaded bags. Some are in trendy kurtis, others in
jeans. Look around and there are enough young men as well, fresh and vibrant
in crisp kurta-pyjamas, happily switching off their cell phones so that
nothing interrupts their weekly tryst with God. The young look more humble
here than they do in any other setting. There is an absence of arrogance
and frivolousness that is associated with the GenNext. But it is the 30-plus
who stand out. The rough and tumble of life have left discernible marks.
Their hands are folded in prayer, there is a smile on their lips but a
sense of loss lingers in their eyes. They want a spiritual balm to rethink
their position in relationships, jobs and society on the whole.
Spirituality, soul, sanctity. These S-words are
now being openly and passionately used. "I felt a strong pull towards
satsang after a personal crisis," says Kirpal Mathur, 38, associate
professor, National Institute of Fashion Technology, Delhi, who attends
the Radha Soami satsang. "I feel most alive during those two hours,"
she adds. Advocate Jatinder Cheema, 33, also swears by his appointments
with God. Cheema attends the Satya Sai Baba satsang every Sunday evening.
He has 5,000 others for company. "Satsang is just a mechanism in
the quest to realise the God within. Words cannot describe the joy I experience,"
says Cheema.
It is as if there is a resurgence of the bhakti
movement. With shades of renaissance. This devotion does not come packaged
with ritualism-here people do not blindly follow the puja and prasad traditions
that were earlier associated with religious faith. Instead, there is a
fresh wave of inner questioning. Peace is a definite part of the larger
search for semblance and synergy with reality. The culture market sparkles
with clear reflections. In music shops, the CDs and cassettes of the Gayatri
mantra and other divine chants and bhajans have sold in record numbers,
overtaking some of the biggest musical blockbusters. Television channels
devoted to religion like Sanskar and Aastha have very high early-morning
TRPs, sustaining their existence.
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SOUL PURPOSE: For these youngsters, the satsangs
at ISKCON and Shri Ram Sharnam (below) are not just prayer sessions
but the means to momentary nirvana
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Whatever the religious loyalties of these noveau
seekers of spirituality, they are united by one goal. It is variously
described as peace of mind, joy, higher consciousness, personal transformation,
karmayoga, self-esteem or at its most banal, reincarnation. As the satsangis
sway to a hitherto unknown ecstasy, experiencing both the strength and
vulnerability of group catharsis, most of them claim that their lives
have changed forever. "It is love. It is longing for your beloved,"
says a blushing Priya Shivdasani, a 29-year-old who quit her profession
as a lawyer to seek "meaning". Shivdasani has found it in her
love for the New-Age guru Sri Sri Ravi Shankar.
Many seekers believe in the idea of an unquestioning
faith in a living master. Gurus, swamis or mentors, as they are called,
are not all Himalayan masters brought up only on divine diets of selfless
love, peace and godliness. Some obviously believe in subtle strategies
to increase the number of devotees. Others symbolise the modern synergy
of science with the sacred. Suave Vedantin Jaya Row of Mumbai's Vedanta
Vision is one among them. Clad in a white cotton sari, a cell phone in
hand, Row looks every inch a contemporary corporate guru. Born in a family
with strong spiritual leanings, she studied microbiology and business
management and was working as a marketing manager with a corporate house
when she decided to become a full-time Vedantin. "In this age of
scientific enquiry and contemplation, the youth needs convincing answers
to their questions," she says, adding, "Once you reason with
them, they are hooked." Row insists that she does not want to "market"
her interpretations of Vedanta, but is quite open to the idea of interacting
with the media.
On the other hand, Swami Vishwamitra Mahajan
who leads the Shri Ram Sharnam satsang would rather be left alone. A decade
ago, Mahajan was an ocularmicrobiologist at the All India Institute of
Medical Sciences, Delhi, one of the few such specialists in Asia, till
he had the "call". "It is divine will that introduces them
early to a spiritual life," he says of the young seekers who throng
to meet him. "There are many ophthalmologists but the world also
needs those who can help people open the inner eye to the divinity within,"
he says, his face glowing with a bliss that is rarely seen.
An eye-opening experience is exactly how many
define their sacred journey as. Some have come seeking peace pills after
a personal crisis, others looking for purpose in a life mangled by crazy
competitiveness and declining trust in others. "There is greed for
name, fame and money spurred by ego, so one has to deal with disillusionment,"
says Cheema. He explains that having lost his parents at a young age,
it is this spiritual connection that has helped him find a balance in
life. Dipti Makhija, 17, of Ahmedabad, was drawn to spirituality after
a car accident. After her left foot was amputated, the traumatised girl
was taken to a Chinmaya Mission satsang by her mother. "I have overcome
my suicidal phases and have found hope again," says Makhija, a Class
XII student, who now walks with a crutch.
It is not, however, only a bad case of the blues
that creates a satsangi. Meenakshi Soni's spiritual connection is, literally,
umbilical. "My mother used to come here when she was pregnant and
I believe my spiritual quest is preordained in some ways," says the
29-year-old full-time sevak at Ram Sharnam, who gave up everything-her
job, disco dances and material pursuits-to devote herself fully to the
sect.
Indians have always been spiritual but it is
interesting to see how spirituality acquires a different meaning for different
generations. Exploring religion through prayer and meditation seems to
have become a thought-provoking ideology for the new generation. Most
of these young people say they have learnt to integrate their personal
and professional lives with their spiritual calling. But some chart out
a new path. Like Cheema who stumbled upon social work. "We form teams
within our satsang group to clean hospital wards, clear garbage dumps
in villages in Delhi and teach the local people to keep their surroundings
tidy," he says. Service to humanity is a popular doctrine of these
satsang groups. The young members sweep and mop the satsang centres, distribute
religious literature, serve drinking water, guard footwear and help the
old members find comfortable seating at the bhajans. Karma is no longer
a given. And fate is no longer a name given to a ceaseless chain of intertwined
causes. Service and sacrifice are something to be "done" and
revelled in.
Humbling experiences apart, as Yogesh Mehndiratta,
a 33-year-old acoustic engineer and satsang regular, points out, the lilting
bhajans are also a major draw for many seekers. "The music is spellbinding,"
he says, adding that satsang groups attract some of the best bhakti singers.
The effect of songs sung to the accompaniment of traditional instruments
is instant and enthralling. At Delhi's iskcon temple, after the shringar
aarti begins at 7 a.m, people start dancing to drum beats and manjiras
with infectious abandon.
If you are a believer almost every path leads
to God. For a satsangi, the very act of congregation fosters spiritualism.
For the sceptic who has not tried it, satsang could be another promise
of nirvana.
 
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